5 Common Habits That Will Kill Your Confidence
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Every single day, we do something that are fantastic for our confidence and we do others that aren't so good — they drag it down and destroy it. The problem is we can't always tell which of those is which. And that's why in this video, I want to show you five very common behaviors — some of which I bet you are doing — that are secretly destroying your confidence because if you can remove these from your life, it's dramatic how your self-esteem and your confidence will skyrocket. So the first one that I've had a very, very first hand experience with was staying in a situation that you really dislike.
Now, it's obvious that you're not going to want to stay in a situation you dislike by definition but it actually destroys your self-esteem when you do that. And I realized this back in the day when I had my first job as a consultant. I didn't love it, it wasn't horrible but when I got up in the morning, I felt like I was faking it; I felt like I was putting on the suit pretending to care about something that I didn't really care about. Simultaneously, I found myself feeling less confident myself; I was starting to doubt myself.
0:24 Staying in a situation that you really dislike
2:20 Focusing intensely on practice
3:54 Belief that a certain person's approval will make you happy
4:58 Disqualifying yourself verbally before doing something
6:06 Saying the “I don't care” in order to be kind
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